tell me abt it^^
26 comments
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:02
LinkUh idk where to start......
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:14
LinkMy family just kinda sucks...Like both my grandmas r agaist LGBTQ + so i have to hear a ton abt how its wrong and stuff my uncles calls me a fag so im scared only some of my family knows bc im scared to come out to the rest
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 05:18
LinkMhmm. Yeah. It’s a really hard thing. It’s bad enough to have that hate but in your own family. It’s just so bad.
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:22
LinkYea especially since right b4 i told her i like females she just told me how lgbtq is wrong and ppl shouldnt be like that and im like do u understand who ur talking to?
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 05:26
LinkGod bless your heart you brave Warrior. I give you the best of luck and your grandma needs to realize the only reason why gender exists is for reproduction.
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:34
LinkYea i told her i dont want kids her exact words "No matter who u love we dont care bu u will have kids if u want them or not" Like NO TF IM NOT its up to my partner and i and i get jealous very easily so for me kids would cause problems for my partner and i but if my partner wanted kids ofc i wouldnt say no bc i wanna spoil the shit outta my partner so anything they want ill give
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:35
LinkAlso obviously she does care or she wouldnt bash lgbtq
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 05:39
LinkGood on you. And your body is your choice. Make her choose one, support the lgbqt+ or to stop nagging about kids. She’s wrong on both and that’s a real shitty saying. I hope you don’t have kids unless you want to and for you/your partner to have an amazing relationship
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:46
LinkYea i really love my gf but i think my jealous issue is starting to cause problems but i think its just my seperation anxiety and ig ill have to see if we last 4-5 years so that we can talk abt kids.....I was raised tough love and my lil cousins get babied so it kinda gets me in trouble plus im only good with certain ages or i start getting mad with them
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 05:49
LinkYeah. Understandable, you just need to train yourself. She’s not going to magically go ‘nope I don’t love you’ and for the kids, imagine their a gift from your gf, you don’t want to lose that gift she worked hard on for you
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:53
LinkYea im working on that i just miss her besides shes the reason im still alive so without her i start to get sad and i constently cuddle my pillow thinking of her
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 05:55
LinkIt’s hard , I know. You will get through it and you two will be so happy together. Marriage Mabey?
Pookie
20.06.2021 05:59
LinkHopefully i mean im 14 and shes 13 so itll be awhile
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:00
LinkJust a lil while bu I see it happening
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:02
LinkBut**
Pookie
20.06.2021 06:06
LinkHopefully shes the one i want forever and more.......Im starting to write songs abt her........
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:09
LinkThat’d be a great welcome back gift :) . Just think of your future with her
Pookie
20.06.2021 06:13
LinkI am also idk last girl i wrote a song abt is my bff and it was a song i wrote bc she was feeling down and in a bad place.......So it prolly wont be any good.....
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:14
LinkHey, it takes practice to bed good at something so do it! It’ll be amazing
Pookie
20.06.2021 06:19
LinkYea ik ive been at it since i was little i just get adhd and then cant focus on finishing it
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:22
LinkOof. Just try your best and think of how happy she’d be to get it
Pookie
20.06.2021 06:26
LinkYea ill finish in the morning its almost midnight
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:30
LinkWait it’s almost midnight for you? It’s 1:30 for me, and girl wtf? Got to sleep
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:31
LinkGo*
Pookie
20.06.2021 06:35
LinkNo i cant my adhd has kicked in so if im not on here imma run around the hous and get in trouble
shesjustanbendy[OP]
20.06.2021 06:40
LinkOof ok XD