MY GOD , NOT THE RIGHT TIME WUT RONG WIT CHU

I didn't know what it was until now jeeze I already feel bad

i need to hugz u , and i'll send 10,000 virtual hugz

that is horrible (im not going to get involved and try to help you though cause ill just screw it up) but i hope things work out

Toby. I know there is not much that will make you feel better but know we love you here. Sometimes people are stupid and do stupid things. Just push forward, don't give up. I'd say confront her, and see if she tells the truth. Because honesty is important. I would hug you if I could.

*sens virtual cookie basket*

* sends a ton of virtual get-well-soon hugz *

I wish I could gaso for affect and you could hear it so, I'm sorry Toby, I wish I had advice for this one, I'm shocked, this is quite sad really, you shouldn't be sorry for something that's not your fault though....

gasp* ergh

Omg life is not fair to you is it your girlfriend needs to be better

Oh my goodness, that is horrible. I feel so bad for you. This also probably is not a easy situation for you either, but if she really cared, she would not of done that. You take care of yourself though, go rest a little, maybe cry a little, it helps. Remember, put yourself FIRST. You are the most important thing in this situation.

Toby , i rylly want to draw a anim of me hugging u , but i scared it might upset u ;n; plz get better

I think I have some type of advice though, she directly told it to you and you only right?

then i do anim for u

wait nvm red it wrong

HnNg, uh, how'd you know she would kill herself?

@TobyRogers Of course you are. And YOU did NOT fail her. She failed you! Don't blame this on yourself. If you tried, you tried. Let her go, even if it seems hard. It is dangerous to hold on to a sick relationship.

Oh jeeze I'm so sorry I remember when my shitty boyfriend cheated on me

It's not like that @undertale15 He really liked this girl, and not to mention he was told by a different person, maybe even a friend, not his gf. It hurts a lot more than just "cheating"

Toby if you love her that much let her go your relationship is unstable if she threatens to kill her self then she might threaten to kill you and you just need time I cried and it took me three months to get over it just take your time and heal

Toby you should really tell someone! Someone who can actually help! Like a adult or someone and show them the video so they can help her, because we can't really do much :T

@TobyRogers Hey, we are here for you. WE LOVE YOU. If we didn't, we wouldn't be busting our butts to make sure your okay, and safe. If you need anything, we are here. Just letting you know. :) And if you ever want to talk to me, just let me know, I will totally talk to you. :)

You really care about her right, if she ever wasn't with you she'd kill herself? I think you should confront her on discord and ask why she cheated, if she still really cares for your relationship with her then she'd answer, I believe you still care about the relationship too, if you do then I might have more advice

Not to mention he might even have depression, my gf had a boyfriend who had depression and I watched her break up with him. I watched it. I didn't care at the time but I know more now.. and now I feel like my gf is a cruel sick joke.

@laneycat sorry I'm shitty when it comes to love all I do is set people up and hope for the best The only thing I can't even land a date so I help other people cause that's what I do best and when my friends have break ups I help them every step of the way and even do therapy with them

Even if you can't tell any adults , WE are here for u! we care about you , and we will help u , u just need to remember that friendo!

I couldn't either.. I really want to go over there and help.. I really do... my heart is racing and I fell like I'm shuddering.. I really care..

@Undertale15, Toby lives in Norway, his girlfriend lives in America

Please elaborate. She is threatening to kill you? Or your scared of her reaction? I seriously think the best thing you can do is tell an adult, most likely a school counselor. You can be protected.

Oh...

I live in America to

Do you know what school she goes to? Maybe call the school and tell them?

Maybe tell that friend you were talking about to help you break up w/ her?? I'm sorry, I am not the greatest at love situations.

Ok which state does she live in and yes I can call any school dude I live by the district board

This is pissing me off, I wish I could help you more but I'm not a therapist or a doctor or anything, If a little more detail was said then I could come up with ore advice but, I guess what you need is someone to relate to, I can't relate at all, I've been single my whole life so far and nothing has can close to this. You deserve real love Toby

... Well that's a problem.

Wait hold on have you been online dating

My moms friend thought me some therapy I can help some

I agree with @Coconot .

@Undertale15, seriously, do you have any good ideas on how to help this? Because so far, no offense, it's pretty bad advice you're giving, actually I speak for myself...

the problem here is that your " girlfrend " hurt you >:O

My mom is a social worker, with a masters degree in social services, human services, psychology, and counseling. So maybe I could be @ service as well.

Ok so you need to find a way to get in contact with someone who know she'd irl. You said your friend told you? If that friend told you can you get that friend to get her help or contact her principal?

i have no advice in love life , but i would listen to the friends close to you , since they might have been through thick and thin with you

I'd say yes, but make sure he tells her parents or someone about the suicide thing, just to make sure she's safe.

Toby, I have to say as a therapist in training if u live in two different countries that may cause problems do to distance and not knowing more about each other and you don't know if there lying umm I don't want to upset you so just tell me if you want to hear my answer as a therapist or a person

hNnG, I'm getting bad vibes but like, if he does, really quickly right after maybe try talking to her? Tell her you still care but a full blown relationship isn't healthy

Undertake online dating brings people together. Sure, it has its risks, but people have found, can find, and will find the loves of their life online.

Yeah no don't give him your email password :T

It doesn't sound like it to me at least, try to keep her happy the same ways you would in a relationship, she doesn't have to feel alone and neither do you, you both should be happy

oh god, uh, okay

Umm I trust my friends when it comes to dating and they say online dating is dangerous so I don't do it and the school says so

It has risks, but it's a part of life.

How old are you undertale? Yes there are predators, but if you VIDEO CHATTED I highly doubt they are a fake -_-

@TobyRogers welp , im getting in a glue puddle , so im running out of advice , but if theres one thing i can say , its trust those you love and can count on , even if the things they say are not good. speaking for myself XD anyway , i really wish i can help u with wisdom love advice but i cant since i have none. im really sorry

Do you know anyone else who knows her? Can you verifiy that Cody actually knows her irl and isn't lying?

hAHa,@Undertale15, you sound like that assembly guide at my school talking about internet saftey

Ok. Try that, at least if she breaks up w u you are ready.

Ok whatever suits you and makes you happy

i'm sorry. i'm so so sorry. i barely know you, but i'd consider us friends. i hope you are okay. hang out with people that'll help you forget. do happy things, like blow dandelions, look at lights, read a good book, eat some good food, laugh, enjoy life. forget about her. forget it all. just... start over. new year, new life, new you.

Sorry if I am late, but that isn't the greatest idea. (Asked my mum, and said it was for my friend Kadence), and she said "You should softly confront them about the situation, and see if you can resolve. If not, softly begin to break up with them, be very delicate though." Sorry if you feel if I am bothering you... ;w;

ah yes. it takes time.

Exactly. :)

*virtual hugs*

aAAAAAANND YOU TELL THAT ***** TO... nevermind. it wouldn't help... i'm sorry.

It's ok you tried

#i tried. but did not help.

Do you want my help?

So what my bro did was ask her why she would do it, and Sarah, his old gf said that because she felt that he made her feel special so then he told her that if she killed herself she would make him worry and give im more of these probs and peeps at the school would blame him 4 her death but she kept telling him that she would still do it so my bro kept telling me that he fell in love with some other girl but didn't want 2 cheat on Sarah so he tried to let her off easy he said," Well Sarah I just want to say I love 2 much 2 say that I'm cheating on u so I just think that I can't be with you anymore. I think though that you find the right person oneday and don't end it you still have a lot 2 live for, but just don't forget that still somewhere in my heart you're still there so please we should stop. I love you to know that you would cheat on me and I cheat on you,And please don't end it stay alive for me, for your family, for your future so that oneday we can meet again.k?" Sarah said yes.

oh and idk if that will work but I hope it does. I believe.