So uh,, Ive always dated people close to me because if never feel attracted to people i barely know,, Ive dated someone i barely had a strong bond with and the relationship was so awkward,, i couldnt go near him,talk to him,or even give him a 'valentines' card,, But i dont understand if im pan or demi,, I dont mind about the gender,, anygender is okay for me But ive only dated one person that i had no strong bond,, And it was bad,, And then i had like 7 strong bonded people ive dated,, but it still ended badly,, but now its alright Mega confusion