Bestie The r slur is a ****ing slur and it shouldn't be used by any means You can't just say "Oh, its only a slur if it's giving someone genuine hatred" No Shut the hell up This is like a white person using the n slur towards a person of color and saying "Oh, I'm not offending them I'm only saying the word!!" No That's completely wrong </3 If its considered a slur, don't ****ing say it.