Hot take 2

4 comments
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
29.01.2026 05:42
LinkLove at first sight is extremely stupid and shouldn't be a normalized trope in media
Just because someone looks nice means you'd want to date them? You dont know who they are, what they like, their hobbies
I understand the concept that love grows stronger the longer you are with someone since you learn more about them, but in my eyes, wanting to date someone purely due to their looks alone is not a relationship
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
29.01.2026 05:47
LinkThings i also find stupid when it comes to romance are things like casual dating. And what i mean by that is when all parties involved do not put in the effort to care about one another seriously. Ive always hated the concept of people who get grossed out by people who are very serious when they first start dating and want to show you how much they love you. "Oh no, my lobster is too buttery" type situation. If you are weirded out by someone dedicating their trust to you, you should not be in a relationship.
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
29.01.2026 05:48
Link"You're doing too much"
Well, go find less, i guess? Weird
Yeah love at first sight is stupid like maybe u look at someone and ur like WHOA theyre hot ans maybe wanna get to know them better but ur not gonna be ready to lay down ur life for them with one glance ðŸ˜
And for the casual dating i dont mind whatever people wanna do with their relationships long as all parties are cool with whats going on and they dont try to boss how other peoples relationships should be like