She would probably take offence to it in all honesty-
And she was already having a shit day and I just made it worse
It just feels like I can never do anything right with her then we both get fired up then I end up saying something and pissing her off
The best I can say is just wait until she calms down a bit and take the next step from there, I’m not sure what kind of person she is but I’m sure you’ll wanna think through about what to say next so you don’t upset her more