OH this is referenced btw it’s something off of Pinterest https://pin.it/RNhcUbK

“MATURE definition in American English | Collins English ... adjective. If you describe someone as mature, you think that they are fully developed and balanced in their personality and emotional behavior”

If maturity is based off of outward looks and behavior wouldn’t it be incorrect to assume that a person is devolped and balanced in personality and emotional behavior as they are internal phycological aspects

Is maturity based off of outward looks and assumptions Everyone probably has there own opinion on what being mature is and that by itself makes the term flawed imo because it now is determined by a person to person perspective rather then one solid definition

If being mature means fitting into the norm of someone who is a developed adult what kind of adult would that be and why are we pushing for children and teenagers who are still growing to be or act like a developed adult when there mind are physically immature

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She keeps bringing up this concept all the time and I’m getting tired of it 😭 you are a 16 yearold with selfish and narcissistic issues trying to convince your year older sibling that there immature because they smile all the time and don’t want to bullshit through conversations and get straight to the point If me being happy and laughing makes me immature I don’t want to be mature

She actually acts like a sterotypical teenager it’s ****ing nuts

I didn’t take into consideration the question I was posing w the image I used 😭

My sister uses it as a point against me telling me I’m not mature and she’s obsessed with the idea of being the older sibling when she is physically not I’m a year older “Why do you think people think I’m the older sibling” “Because your taller and you have longer hair” “I think it’s because I’m more mature” 🙎

She actually smokes weed too and she tells me all of this while blazed which is even wilder

Nah she still had this same argument when she was off of weed but I think the weed is telling her she needs to prove a point and tell me everything

Comes in my room at the break of dawn to talk about how weed makes her feel horrible and I tell her to get off the weed and she’s like no and you don’t understand

I thought ppl smoked weed to feel better not to be miserable Let someone else have the weed if it’s not working for you

I understand what withdrawl is like and how weed and dull down your emotions

And how dulling down your emotions also makes you feel depressed or life is meaningless it’s not about not understanding because I understand the concept of taking drugs and what quiting them entails But a big part of this is my sister has quit weed before

This isn’t her first time, and after she quit she told me it was the most horrible time in her life and then she got all Christian and got with a girlfriend and they broke up

Yk what blows me is MAMA is the one giving the weed to her

MY MOM OUR MOM

I found that out today I wish I could throw away all the weed in the house bru

I get having a chill mom or even one that lets you do drugs but this is insane

YES like that’s gonna mf help if mama is giving you the weed for free

Am I the only sober stable person in this house dawg

Everyday there’s a new fight between my mom and my sister and bro it’s been one year since I was put into the mental hospital I’m doing good I’m cooking for myself and eating healthier I have a schedule and I got this moral bullshit outside my front door and literally waking up to yelling

Yeah like atleast make the child get her own

I was like where the hell do you get this weed and she’s like why do you wana know and I said bc I’m just wondering like you don’t have any money for it She said it’s mainly from mama I was like that’s ****ed

Our grandpa smokes weed so I’m guessing my mom just gets it from him

Yeah atleast I’m greatful it’s not xanax or some other shit like my mom takes

Still horrible though and my mom lets her smoke her cigars too

No wonder I was so damn depressed last year this house sucks balls 😭

I try inviting her out with me when I go to the store or hangout with my friends But now she hates my bestfriend cus her girlfriend wants to fight her and threatened her and when I try to go out with our mom with her around she’s constantly just doing annoying shit ( best way to describe it ) instead of just enjoying the time out and ends up ruining my time

I hadda cut a trip short and walk outside and sit in the car bc she was draining me sm AND AND the thing is before the breakup and the weed rebound she said I was dead to her bc her girlfriend threatened to fight me and I said I’ll be waiting

THATS IT her girlfriend was talking about how much she hated me and wanted to slap me and I responded w I’ll be waiting

Oh and I took 5 dollars out of her cashapp bc she owes me 25 dollars

She’s owed me that 30 dollars for since my 16th birthday 😭

A WHOLE YEAR AND MORE of waiting and I take 5 dollars and she says I’m not her “sister” anymore

5 days later she pops in my room to vent about her fight w our mom Man I just want to be happy and have a normal life bru 😭 I want to have a sister that doesn’t treat me like shit

Not even that just a sister that won’t throw me under the bus as soon as it’s convenient for her

When I turn 18 I don’t know if I ever want to see her again and that hurts yfm

Same but I feel like being mature is just being a stuck up asshole if that’s what my sister is calming she is