I'm a very obsessive person. Not like the cute glorified obsession that edgy teens talk about, like an actual unhealthy obsession. It ruins my life and destroys my friendships if people don't listen to me and it just makes me miserable, if I talk about it and want to help not make it worse I'm serious don't not place boundaries for me you please with everyone, and listen to me. This might be for old or new friends but for either one this is a serious problem.