okay so. its fine to dislike things, even if they arent harmful. thats fine, you can have a preference. you can avoid stuff cause its not your thing. you can talk about why it bothers you personally. I do that. but I try to make sure I say that Im not bashing on people who do it. if its not harmful, then have fun with it. ecen if I hate it. youre still allowed to do it and to have fun. I wont stop you. in fact, I want to encourage people have fun with something I dont like. I dont want people to feel pressured into liking or not liking something just because I or other people feel certain ways about it

I hate the idea of cringe culture and Ive been working on calling myself out when I say ew to things that arent bad. instead I just try to ignore the things I dislike but still encourage others having fun with it. I try to be more nice to people and I try not to take my anger out on people. if I do act aggresive with someone I try to explain Im not in a good mood and that I dont really mean any rude stuff I say.