Ya same. Part of the story is that when Specks evolved everyone thought he was a girl, so he kinda embraced it, then became emo after he got bullied by the other reeves that fit their gender, (except for my male sylveon but Kepta is awesome) then he met Daelan, a shiny Umbreon and he’s adorable and also edgy and now their together. The shows whole plot has more to the story