A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, “Oh, I'm such a bad person. I've been so bad to you all this time.” The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: “Hate the sin but love the sinner."Libras have a fairy tale view of love and togetherness, and as such, they take love very seriously. ... Libras have big hearts and some people take that for granted. Libras change for two reasons: Because they learned a lesson enough times and they want to change, or they've been hurt enough that they have to change