somebody actuallly help??
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Tikkio[OP]
22.08.2018 07:52
Linki need advice of what to do coz im failing rn
Tikkio[OP]
22.08.2018 07:53
LinkI'm feeling crap. I'm worried about my friend. My friend is really stressed and they're worried about their bf because they're bf is getting drunk basically (he drinks when he is stressed and school is stressing him. He also recently was in a car crash s0) and I'm getting scared. I don't want my friend to be offended of what his bf says when he is drunk. I'm just worried that they will break up because my friend will be broken. My friend loved that person all they could. They gave them happiness. But still maybe they will have to break up. Its just so annoying with this on my mind.It isn't fair that is on my mind and that I'm worrying about this but my friend still needs to talk about his problems because if he doesn't things will just get worse. I feel like I'm taking all the weight here and that I have to help and not just leave it and say I'm sorry but I can't. I have to think for a reason! I'm sorry but this is just stressing me and I can't handle some things.
Here is my advice: Tell ur friend, do not stress. Wait until the bf is sober, try to talk to them, see if they can help in any way. If the bf gets upset, try to comfort them the best you can. School sucks, and being in a car crash sucks even more but try to come to the situation calm and collected, try to find a solution... ik this from past experiences... I hope this works >.< GL! And tell your friend it's gonna be alright just don't freak out about the situation too much or else others will feel the anxiety and then they will feel stressed. ❤
Hnnnn. That’s a toughie.
I’d say they should break up if either one of them is not willing to talk about stuff and ACTUALLY sort it out.
Also, a word of advice... it sounds mean to say, but that isnt your problem and you shouldnt have to deal with it. If neither are directly hurting anyone physically or emotionally, you dont need to step in. Worry for your friend, but dont stress or make it “your duty” to help, either.