Vague(ish?) post vent
8 comments
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:00
LinkMy heart is beating so hard rn help
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:02
LinkIdk this has just been bothering me for awhile and its not that big of a deal and people can do what they want but like
So apparently someone i thought of as a really good friend barely thinks of me as a mutual just because i didnt interact with them enough the past few weeks. we've been friends for what? a year and a half? did all that time mean nothing? what happened.
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:04
Linkwere we ever really friends? i just really dont understand. i wasnt active because ive been really depressed for the past month and i have a tendency to lash out or act really passive agressive. turns out the way i was trying not to ruin a friendship was my downfall so silly
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:05
Linkive been afraid to say anything about this because i know everyone who knows this person will leave me. i dont hate them. im just upset and confused and i know im overly sensitive and i know i overreacted but i just cant believe i was forgotten so quickly again.
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:07
Linkis this even a normal thing to be upset about?
anomaly[OP]
25.06.2022 01:08
Linkits a good thing i left
Oh yes Max im so sorry this happened but this is DEFINITELY something you should be upset about
I’m. Not really sure how i can help but. Maybe you can try to make sure you’re understanding the situation correctly? If you’re comfortable with it?
Ask again (and tell them to be direct) about what they feel about their relationship since i often find that when im stressed/mentally unstable that i often make a lot of things seem worst than it is/overdramatize something/not understand it correctly
Maybe you can try to talk to them more? Tell them what’s going on and ask them to give you time?
Stuff like this honestly sucks and what youre feeling rn is completely normal
I’d maybe suggest just (if you still want to keep this relationship going) to just pop in from time to time to say hi and how you’re doing. This may help with keeping some sort of connection