Do keep in mind that my memory is quite foggy during this time. And this is quite a hard subject to talk about So if things dont make sense, I apologize, ask and I will try to elaborate

Real quick background for nooby Noobyfguyguy, or Noobyfguygal, or just simply Nooby, is my ex girlfriend. She is a trans woman who has a purple haired, grey skinned, masked persona. Last time we have all heard from her, she tried to commit suicide, and was hospitalized. I believe she is doing much better now however. Now, onto the actual point of this post:

This is to inform you all of what she has done, I'm not trying to gain sympathy whatsoever. Though I do really just want to get this off my chest, and though my friend is remaining anonymous. I'm sure this is getting it off their chest as well.

Ahem She would constantly do ERPs with me. Whenever I asked for a rp of a different genre, it would always revert back to sex. What made me stop roleplaying entirely was the thing I'm about to talk about next. She did a Rape erp with me. My character, where Daniel(who is now a gay man instead of pansexual because of this) raped her female character: Nooby. I was greatly uncomfortable, but I didnt want to make her mad, so I didnt say anything. But I denied any rp that she asked for after that, and basically rp in general. When I declined her rp offer, she began to ignore me more,(not necessarily IGNORE she just didnt.. reply to me often??) it seems she only wanted me for her own sexual desires. If theres anything to add to this, I will add it.

During our VCs, which we had occasionally, she would force me to turn my camera on, and to show my face, while denying everytime I asked her to show her face I do believe she has jerked off to me in a vc before. I cant say this for certain, but I do believe it happened. Shed sexualize me, even after I told her to stop that. Once, when I politely asked her to go to bed, because she sounded tired. She proceeded to raise her voice at me, I dont remember exactly what she said. But she did hurt my feelings quite a bit and I went on mute until we both left the call.

- she has groomed another friend of mine, I will not specify them or their pronouns to keep them anonymous, unless they themselves would like to come forward about it. - asked me for thigh/feet pics constantly, even after I said no - sexualized me a shit ton Once again, if theres anything I forgot to add, I will add it in

The friend has wished to remain Anonymous. They did kindly offer to share their experience with her, so I shall place that here.

Alright so uh Just kindabullet points but She was constantly fetishizing trans men to my face, constantly talked about wanting to date me/make out when she was 3-4 years older than me (age 'changed' a lot, from 16 to 17 to 15), she constantly broke boundaries, she said stuff like "a trans man is my ideal partner because they're 'nice'!" When its pretty ****in obvious it was fetish especially considering she turned around then and made posts about boypussy. Many excused this behaviour because she's transfem, but in my opinion if a trans man started fetishizing a trans woman for her that wouldn't be okay either. Also, respect peoples boundaries maybe 😨! She constantly would pressure me into erp, and would make snide comments and guilttrip in little ways if i didn't, which built up and made me feel like a shit friend. She'd also constantly draw and animate my characters, a common trait of grooming is also giving gifts to improve your relationship with your victim. (1/?)

It could be argued she was just being nice for the sake of being nice, but i genuinely believe she just wanted me to like/trust her more. I eventually cut it off just with a halfassed 'she made me kinda uncomfortable' post and no real talk about what happened. (2/2)