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mementomori
03.03.2021 17:56
Linkxenogender is,, rude?? huh
mementomori
03.03.2021 17:56
Linkare you gonna elaborate on that or
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--Flowey-Kokichi--[OP]
03.03.2021 18:02
Linki elaborated below-
sorry lol
it's not really 'oh i hate all those catgender kids'
it's 'i hate all the catgender kids who use it because they think it's cute, but i like people who actually use it.'
mementomori
03.03.2021 18:02
Linkthen,, don't say xenogender as in everyone who uses xenogenders, say people doing it for attention are bad and not all of us
cause most of us are just trying to figure out our identities and are being confused with doing it for attention when in reality i don't think ive met anyone who's doing anything to their gender identity at all who's just doing it for attention
mementomori
03.03.2021 18:04
Linki feel like people forget how wrong it can feel to go by the wrong identity and label. not only is it just really uncommon for people to do it but it's probably pretty hard to do in the first place since going by the wrong pronouns can make you like,, legit uncomfortable
mementomori
03.03.2021 18:05
Link*by it in the above comment i mean being trans for attention
--Flowey-Kokichi--[OP]
03.03.2021 18:09
Linkthat entire paragraph i sorta meant to write
but my handwriting is shit and i got arthuritis so i can't write much or hand hurt
but in short:
yes, i think xenogender is good
but there's a lot of people using it to be quirky and it makes things hard.
there's a lot of people who act trans to be quirky. i had a friend like that.
you are fine, and i respect you all
but there's so much confusion for my tiny brain
--Flowey-Kokichi--[OP]
03.03.2021 18:12
Linkthey're a loud minority
also what is your gender so i can use your pronouns ^^
mementomori
03.03.2021 18:16
Link**** man i don't even know at this point i just use they/them and nya/nyas/nyaself (no i don't take it seriously either, but that's what i just happened to be comfortable with apparently)
also makes sense i guess uhhhhhhhhh **** i thought i would have more to say :| oops
--Flowey-Kokichi--[OP]
03.03.2021 18:18
Linkalright, thanks for letting me know.
;-;
if yall use pronouns not because you identify with it, but it makes you feel comfy, it's fine ^^
Honestly-
I agree with half of these-.
I prefer pet rats over pet cats or pet dogs
I don't really agree with the xenogender being rude thing- (Hopefully i read that right? if not then- uh), but I won't hate on you for your opinion. As long as you dont go around insulting people for being xenogender-
straight pride is just an excuse for people to pretend to be oppressed.
abortion is something that people act like is horrible, but a lot of circumstances in which abortion is considered is very serious, and life endangering to not abort.
I elaborated below on the xenogender thing
i said cats>dogs because people usually don't consider rats. i have a rat of my own, and honestly like rats more than people
quick elaboration on the xenogender thing
I am okay with people who use xenogender as a real thing.
the issue is, kids use it as an excuse to be 'cute'
people did not suffer so you can call yourself catgender to be cute
i explained it wrong
i respect all pronouns as long as they are used seriously. there's just so many people using it to be quirky along with the people actually using it.
thanks for listening-