i dont understand

19 comments
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
17.09.2025 11:25
Linki dont understabd kissing .. i think it is cute i just dont understand the appeal? it might be because ive never had one or anything btu i do not understabd how pressing your lips togetehr = love and care
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
17.09.2025 11:25
Linkif anhyone can help me explaiin it will be heelpful for me thankyou
chronic kisser here
Its a little weird irl at first, and media kinda gives heavy emphasis on the whole thing of a FIRST kiss...that being said,, depending on the type of person this can be the worst and the best thing that's ever happened to you.
it's SUPPOSED to be a romance thing? and I frankly don't know how to explain it properly,, but it more will always start as a want or impulse TO kiss someone because that's how society has normalized showing affection romantically, hugs and kisses, kisses always being the more romantic of the options, and for some that's frankly what they wanna do..it's less on the lips for me and more like,,,, all over the face bc its silly :3
lip on lip I feel as though has...deeper emphasis on romance,, more serious,, a lil freaky depending on the type but never the less intended to be a way of showing A LOT of affection
kissing can also be influenced by the lust you feel for a person,,,which again depends on the feelings you feel and the type of kiss.
Legit I don’t even understand either bc I’m a raging germaphobe. I did it one time w/o realising tho and it felt wild, but maybe because I didn’t understand the meaning behind it. 💀