so there's this thing called the natural hair community,where people give tutorials for coily hair.but the problem is that the people doing the tutorials have the hashtag:4c even though they have 3A/3b/3c hair. it's really discouraging towards people who actually have type 4 hair.because 4c hair is reffered to as "messy" or "nappy". while people with 3a hair are using " #4c " as clickbait. people in the natural hair community also look down on others for braiding their hair or wearing weaves(even though these are just protective hairstyles so their natural hair doesn't get dirty. one time i searched up hair tutorials for 4c hair because i was tired of wearing my hair in nothing but box braids and cornrows.all i found were girls with type 3 hair.i had to search for little while to find tutorials for my actual hairtype. and today my sister decided to insult me because of my hair just because she had a looser hair texture then me saying along the lines of "MY hair is WAY easier to take care of.combing it doesn

doesn't hurt" and "i'm surprised for poofy hair is even able to be put in those tiny braids" she always tries to say that she's better than me in every way possible and that i should be jealous.

sorry i took so long. i'm a slow typer