Why doesn't she leave him?! He's so abusive to all of my family. He doesn't know how to stand up for himself or do anything or love. Mentally and physically abusive, he can't control himself. She needs to leave him. If something happens to her, Boo will get us away from him and leave him alone. He doesn't deserve her. 19 years they've been together and he still continues to fight with her. We're all sick of it.