Oh my god- Really? Man, Im so sorry- I didn't relize that. I've been going through the same thing, but its not foster care. I recently was taken away from my abusive & narsasitic mother- who didnt care about us at all -and was put with my dad. My dad has a gf and its been getting hard to accept the fact that my mom doesnt want us and now I have a step-mom. I feel for you. I know what your going through.