yeah sex is cool but have you ever been exposed to massive amounts of trauma at a young age that now manifests in the form of your massive abandonment issues because you've been abused and made to believe you're only lovable if you're useful but you've had the notion of worthlessness drilled so far into your head you will never forgive yourself for anything bad that's ever happened to you because once again you have been imprinted with the idea that everything is your fault?