So. I apologise if this gets a bit, ouch but uh, this pisses me off Remember when I dated someone? Well I sure do. The reason we broke up is because I didn't really have the mental capability to really know how to react with mentions of s*icide and I was not told that this was entirely the issue with the relationship. So yes they broke up with me :), and I must say I was in kind of a desperate state at that moment and well thus is the reason I got a bit,,, pissy, were my actions really called for? No. Reasonable? No. But in reality I was simply trying to separate myself from that situation so my current confused anger wouldn't cause the situation to escalate. But. The thing is I simply got more and more mad because the situation kept getting shoved in my face. But it took at least 1 full week until I actually got the full extent of the root of this issue but by that time I was getting accused of being uhh manipulative, gaslighting, and neglectful

But in reality I wasn't, nor at least trying to be. It may have come off that way because of my tendancy to completely separate myself from people who I have issues with. But after time went on I realized yes I was shit, so you know what, I went and I fixed myself, and I apologized to those in which I hurt in that situation.

But the thing is. This specific person I'm talking about, was like "oh yeah we can vibe" but was literally no different. After a while of being around them I slowly started to realize, that they never really gave me even an ounce of showing actual partnership. Every time I vented about anything all they had to say to me was "your parents lick pussy haha" and then every time we got into an argument this person decided to use everything k vented about as a way to well, blame me. As if saying my issues are a decent excuse to be an ass. When in reality I never really said anything like that. But they simply used this as a way to say "you're just as scummy as me because you have home issues"

But the thing is, the difference between them and me is I'm not going to straight up go to someone's page and taunt them when they obviously don't want to talk to you and simply say "piss cum ass fück" or something along those lines. And then when that person gets frustrated I don't accuse them of gaslighting people and call them slurs relating to mental disabilities. So no comparing themself to me is probably the most insulting thing I've ever been told. They simply lied about a lot of things, never once talked to me about it. I don't know how to deal with s*icide and I think I made that pretty clear to them. I don't know what to say because I felt like if I said one thing wrong they'd simply do it. And no I did not ignore them, no I'm not blaming them for having those thoughts hell I'm not even blaming them for the situation. But I am mad at them for making up lies, being horrible when we were dating, and never giving me any space

And now for current times I'm not putting too much information on this because uh, reasons so anyway my current s/o and their friend had a bit of an issue so this person decided to literally say to me about my s/o that "they are the reason my bestie has mental issues" when in reality it was simple "I don't want to talk to you" and so I got mad. Because they are willing to hurt someone very close to me over an issue their bestie and my s/o were even to make up over

PS: swb minions hi yes I am aware you are probably here to collect info for your boss go ahead you know who you are

Oh yeah have proof https://ibb.co/frnsdKC https://ibb.co/FqcCLmH

Edit time: so anyways I forgot to add this and I have the memory of a goldfish. But this person I'm raging about, has done like really disgusting things. They have publicly declared my deadname despite I made it very obvious I didn't want it known. They have sent their "minions" to harass me on multiple occasions, especially on vents that had NOTHING to do with them. They shove their nose in everyone's business. They publicize things that people REALLY didn't want to be known about them. They lie they snitch they manipulate.

You know what you have a decent point thank you

Oh I see, well I'm sorry I'm just It's hard to explain but like they did quite a bit and really stuck a negative impact in my head and like all I really want is them to realize that these are like dick moves

MMmh alright I'll try to not be a, obsessive nut over this I'm very sorry for the inconvenience /gen

Still it was a bit much

But the thing is I'm very sorry if this sounds mean, I'm not trying to be mean but theres much more to the story much more

Im sorry you had to put up with their nonsense too, and honestly, the way they treat the people that think of them as a friend is,, just wrong 🫂