Lmao father really just said I
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Aisling-does-Art
18.11.2020 03:53
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-Arcadia-[OP]
18.11.2020 03:54
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He and my mom were talking about my sister having a gf n stuff
My mom completely supports us with whoever or whatever gender we like
Then out of know where my dad brought up me in the situation
My mom asked if I like girls
I s h r u g g e d
Lmao my mom said that it's alright if I am and my dad legit said no It is not
At the end of the day that’s your love life, not his, it’s not like he’s dating whoever you date, that’s your decision, your love, and you choose who gets to have it
Me who is just as tall as your dad:
I can't beat the shit out of you without getting any closer
he shouldn't get to say something like that
you get to choose who you'd end up dating, not him. that's your choice, and he shouldn't get to have any say in it because it's not about him or for him or anything like that. and he shouldn't get to choose whether or not you're trans, it's your choice to transition to a different gender, not his. it doesn't affect him, only you, so don't let him decide this for you.
yeah, i understand
here's a trick i've used with my mom that you could try: just get out of the room and say, "got it, i gotta go to the bathroom now" or whatever your excuse is. while there, start planning a secret way to keep doing what you want or being you or whatever you wanna use it for. then, either online or in person, talk with your friends about it. they'll support you, i can guarantee that. start emerging yourself a bit or a lot more in it. if your dad finds out in a while, he'll either know he can't change you now or he'll try to argue, in which case also plan a way to persuade him to get your way.
it's very effective, trust me. i've done it many times.
that's good, you have some people in mind already
now you need to think of a persuasive argument to get your way. this part takes the longest, so you should do that first.
that will definitely work bc your dad can't force you to break up. if he tries, he's just a jerk (i'm sorry if you find this offensive)