I slightly judge self shipping. Yes I've done it in the past (like my beginning in FA on my YBN acc, but I grew out of it) but I don't judge it too much, the only time I do when it goes to a extreme level, like reading fanfiction of that certain character unironically and making it way too known that you love this certain character to the point you get harassed by it. Self Shipping can be ok, but people can take it out of hand, and which comes the troll fangirls comes in.