ok so. TW for mentions of: r4p3, p3d0s. talking about r4p3 in a respective way is fine. as long as if you are talking to someone else about it, they are comfortable. but if you start joking around about it, even if the other person is comfortable with it, it's not funny. people are left with mental scars becuase of it, so don't. do. it. same thing with p3d0s.