why do i need to say this

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by: himbocat

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12.04.2021

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himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:32

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hey guys, as a white person im not allowed to decide what is or isnt racist towards people of color. you want to know why? 1. ive never experienced racism as a white person so i wouldnt know 2. it is far to easy to be able to manipulate the situation to normalize harmful things towards poc if white people are given that power, probably unconsciously too

himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:34

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let the people who actually know what the **** they're talking about speak. it is definitely not ally moment to silence them and tell them what YOU think is harmful. it is also definitely not ally moment to especially tell them that something they're doing is harmful towards them and get on their ass for it.

himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:39

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when a minority tells you, a hypothetical majority, that something you (or others in your group) is harmful towards them, ****ing listen. no matter how much you study them and learn about them you will never be able to walk in their shoes and you will never truly be able to decide for them what is harmful towards them. again you also really cant claim to support them if you dont listen to them when they tell you that something you're doing is shitty.

himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:41

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*something you did is harmful towards them. hell

rube-pantz

12.04.2021 13:40

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ive seen so many ppl on here that arent mlm (or atleast man aligned nblm)/trans women use the f slur im actually going insane

rube-pantz

12.04.2021 13:42

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ok this is probably unrelated but i felt like saying this bc it makes me genuinely uncomfortable to see lgbt cis girls use the f slur like its nothing and then say "i can say it bc its a slur anyone in the lgbt community can say" NO. the f slur literally means "failure as a man" do you really think that applies to the ENTIRE lgbt community...

himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:45

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honestly i was one of those people (though ive never personally used the word) that thought anyone in the community could use it,,, i think thats mostly just bc of the extreme lack of lgbtq history being taught (at least in america i think??)

rube-pantz

12.04.2021 13:49

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YEAH I 100% UNDERSTAND THAT THOUGH... i know so many ppl who also thought this way which. i think says a lot actually. i tried telling a female aligned nb person why they cant say the f slur and they that its their opinion........like Huh.

himbocat[OP]

12.04.2021 13:51

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h. What how can u. make it ur opinion that u can say a slur...... what...... what.

conductor

12.04.2021 13:53

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PLS WHAT (abt the chain w. rube-pantz, i jus dont wanna chain whbgfhs) HOW IS THAT. HOW IS THAT AN OPINION ??????????? WHAT. IT'S,, IT'S A SLUR >?????? THAT'S LIKE A WHITE PERSON DECIDING THEY CAN SAY THE N WORD BC IT'S """"""""THEIR OPINION"""""""""""