rant
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Technoperpetually 
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16.12.2022
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Technoperpetually[OP]
16.12.2022 02:25
Linkbefore uyou assume, let me type lol
Technoperpetually[OP]
16.12.2022 02:31
Linki'm actually starting to hate the lgbt+ community because of the loud minority of toxicity that runs through the community. it's why i like to not be very out there with my sexuality or gender identity. i don't call myself trans or gay as much as i use to.
the lgbt+ community prides itself on inclusiveness but it doesn't feel that way. there's a lot of homophobia towards certain sexualities (bisexuals and pansexuals hating each other for some reason) and transphobia. it's very problematic. and most people nowadays use it to feel special and unique by claiming to be apart of it.
it's ****ed up and the loud toxicity needs to shut up because i'm beginning to become transphobic/homophobic towards myself because of how loud it is. i know it's probably not going to be fixed, and i might get in trouble for this, but it needs to be said. this community is toxic as hell and i don't like to identify with it. it makes me feel like some clown now.
Technoperpetually[OP]
16.12.2022 02:32
Linkwhy can't everyone just let people be people unless it's actually harmful?? lgbt+ is not inclusive as it says it is.
Technoperpetually[OP]
16.12.2022 02:34
Linkalso, people are just making shit up now. neopronouns and xenogenders are cool and all cause they've always been around (since the 1800s i believe) but emojis??? disorders??? disabilities?? as genders?? wtf??
iiSvnnyMxrian
25.12.2022 01:45
Linkim sorry but nb reading allat
iiSvnnyMxrian
25.12.2022 01:45
Linkim sorry but nb reading allat
No bc the bisexual and pansexual argument is so stupid
“Pansexuality can be bisexuality”
OKAY ITS A MICROLALBEL WHO THE HELL CARES
“Its bi erasure”
BISEXUALITY AINT GOING NO WHERE DAWG
i hate those arguments because what?? bro pansexuality is where you're gender blind, you got no gender preference but bisexuality is not gender blind and has gender preferences or something like that. they're different :skull:
Exactly then the lesbian non-binary argument
Because a user on tiktok was non-binary but masc and was amab
People started saying “only people w a connection to womanhood can be lesbian”
Basically saying that non-binary amab people can’t be lesbians because they don’t have a unique connection with woman hood
And when asked what about trans woman they said “they are women” yeah but there amab just like non-binary amab they still grew up being treated like a man
But what it really is basically is that they find masculine non transitioned mab people as men and they dont want to date them because of that
Because transwoman can be non transitioned and masculine too- but they know if they bring them up it would be different
People can have preferences but excluding a group of people because there not transitioned or look a way you would find attractive does that mean you just kick them out
i don't understand that concept yet about non-binary lesbians, so i can't really say anything about that. it's very confusing though.
“If they look like a man why would I date them as a lesbian”
Well because gender identity is more than looks
But if you think of gender identity based on looks alone you could confuse a trans woman as a man
That’s yo problem
Or you could just like feminine women
I don’t see gender that way but maybe that’s because I’m trans and see gender more complex like that and cis people can only rationalize gender by looks
the transphobia against trans women is so disgusting and more common than ftm transphobia ngl. they're women and have always been women.
Exactly and so have non-binary people
Which is exactly my problem
And its so funny because gay people haven’t said anything towards non-binary fab people
yeah, idk why the amab people in the trans community get it worse, they're literally trans just like everyone else in the community.
And another argument would be “well some people are uncomfortable around men those people are invading the lesbian safe spaces”
Yk what that reminds me of
“We can’t allow transwomen in the bathroom its invading woman spaces”
NON-BINARY PPL ARE NON-BINARY AND TRANS WOMEN R WOMEN
THAT IS IT
ITS NO DEEP ROOTED SPIRITUALLY TO BEING A LESBIAN
ITS A SEXUALITY
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE A GROUP OF CIS WOMEN ONLY LESBIANS WE GOT THAT ALREADY THERE CALLED TERF LESBIANS
this is the exact reason why i don't use public bathrooms anymore unless they're gender neutral.
transphobes are more into what's in your pants than trans people and gay people.
And I literally have been having the same issue w being uncomfortable around men for past reasons
If I saw a old masculine looking person yes I would be uncomfortable
But that doesn’t mean there a ****ing man I’m just uncomfortable around anyone who looks like that
If you want a safe space for people uncomfortable around men then shit open it up but I’m gonna have to break it to you that anyone can be uncomfortable around men including other men including me a trans man
definitely, i can understand you. i have trauma that makes me very cautious and aggressive towards randos at first who look like men as well, regardless if they're men or not.
However if its one of my trans brothas or sistas they family to me
“What if someone is just lying to you about being trans”
Yk that’s funny cus that’s what people say about transwomen all the time but No one would realistically decide to dress themselves up or tell people there trans because it could lead to there victims not liking them more or even assaulting them because they said there trans ( because people ****ing hate trans amab’s )
Usually what people do instead is get a cis woman to lure people in to make them feel comfortable
That aint a lie either bro y’all think y’all safe by not liking trans women murders r smart as hell
Ong if some sweet ass lady came up to me and said hey you want some candy I’m falling for that shit too
the only liars in the trans community is either the transphobes trynna ruin us by pretending to be one of us or people who just want to be special.
let trans people mind their own business instead of cis people doing it.
also relatable, i could never turn down a sweet ass lady giving me treats.
i actually agree
4 some reason pans hate bis and bis hate pans
some trans ppl hate nonbinary ppl FOR BEING NONBINARY (swapped too)
in my opinion Bisexual lesbians dont exsist (its bisexuals w/ a prefrence to girls like...)
ive seen first hand abt ppl fighting and saying cat-gender exsists n shit or like..dreamsexual (where ur attracted to Dream) ppl make up sexualities
i'm still on the fence about catgender but that kind of dreamsexual is a definite **** you from me.
yeah lol
i think xenogenders r cool!!! but like..some of them r questionable.
OK BUT CAN WE TALK ABOUT AUTISMSEXUAL, VEGANSEXUAL N STRAIGHT-LESBIANS?????
I LITERALLY FOUND A CAARD ON TRANSAUTISM. ****ING TRANSAUTISM. AUTISM ISN'T A TRANSGENDER IDENTITY, NOR IS ANY OTHER DISORDERS/DISABILITES. IT'S WILD.
OK AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON THIS IS....WHY WOULD /ANYONE/ WANT AUTISM
ITS NOT SOME qUIEKy THING, ITS SOMETHING THAT AFECTS MY EVERYDAY LIFE
I'M AUTISTIC TOO AND IT'S THE REASON WHY I CAN'T KEEP MY LIFE TOGETHER. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE THESE PEOPLE LIVE A DAY AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON AND SEE IF THEY STILL WNAT IT LMAO.
EXACTLY!!! AUTISM ISNT FUN AND EXCITINF, I DONT SAY "yay!! im autizitic uwu!!! " NO I CRY AT FFLASHING LIGHTS AND SCREAMING
ITS NOT CUTE
ITS NOT QUIRKY
ITS ****ING ANNOYING AND DEMEENING
I LITERALLY CAN'T SOCLIALISE CAUSE OF AUTISM, IT'S VERY HARD. I TOO FREAK OUT WHEN PEOPLE SCVREAM OR HAVE A HIGH PITCHED VOICE.
SAME ITS NOT FUNNY ITS NOT CUTE, HELL I STIM AND HAVE TICS SOMETIMES AND ITS NOT ADORABLE IT GETS.IN.THE.WAY
THE THING IS, EVERYONE STIMS, IT'S JUST THAT FOR AUSTISTIC AND ADHD AND OTHER STUFF, STIMMING IS AN EVERY DAY, EVERY HOUR THING AND CAN BE VERY DISTRACTING FOR OTHER PEOPLE AND IT CAN GIVE YOU SLEEP ISSUES AS YOU'RE ALWAYS MOVING.
YEAH!!! I HAVE INSOMNIA SO I STAY UP ALL NIGHT, JUST STIMMNG,ITS NOT FUCIG qUerKIy!!!
PPL ALSO UES "typing quirks" 4 SOME REASOn
I USE 4s AND STUFF INSTINCIVELY, I HAVE SEEN PPL TYPING /FORCING/ THEMSELVS TO USE "Typing quirks" LIEK...
I CAN'T EVEN READ THOSE FAKE ASS FORCED TYPING QUIRKS WHERE THEY'D REPLACE LETTERS WITH NUMBERS.
ITS SO HARD TO READ
OK OK TRY TO REA THIS Rq
h3ll0!!1! i 4m Bvnn1e!!
me when i used to be ashamed of being pansexual bc of how lgbtq themselves stereotyped it and continued to say it wasnt real, that there was only bi
i mean i know now im a lesbian but i when ppl asked my sexuality i wouldnt go "pansexual! 😁" id go "...pansexual... ig 🤕😬"
yeah i get you bro, i'm pansexual and that's what it feels like to be in this god forsaken community.
No bc its like if your pansexual you have to be super happy all the time and like bright colors
what ive seen its like the pansexual ppl are always seen as the "softboy trans femboy" type................... and its gross atp 😞
ive found out im not pan but a genuinely do feel bad for all the pans who get represented like that or grouped into that stereotype
yeah! likeu dont have to love colors and dress all fem and be "cutesy wootsie uwu" pan ppl are normal.
The amount of times my pan friends have told me ppl think they're sluts bc they can like anyone of any gender hurts
i'm a feminine pan guy but i ain't always like that :skull:
i have been called a cheater even though i ain't because i said i was pansexual.
damn, im sorry for u, pan ppl arent sluts, they arent cheaters, theyre the same as all of us like....
it's really funny cause usually i'm the one getting cheated on by past partners so idk where the logic is in some people's heads.
so real like no one actually cares ab real issues like trans kids are getting murdered but yes your ****ing neopronoun discourse is so very important
man i agree w/ the neopronouns stuff
i support xenogenders and neopronouns 100%!! if u use xe/xem, ey/em, etc that's cool man, u do u!!
but when people are like 'hi my name's [xyz idk man] im autismgender' it's just a bit. yk??