PLEASE PLEASE please stop referring to me by my legal name. I don't identify with it and I do not feel myself with it. the only people with permission to call me [redacted] is my parents. there are people who I have told I don't want to be called that anymore, it's painful, and I have my reasons, and they still refuse to call me B, purposely. if you do this be ready for me to freak out a little at you, my name is B for a reason.