i personally dont feel...attracted to anyone, not even my girlfriends (in that way) i love them, sure, but i dont want anything else besides friendly stuff like..hugs n cuddles, holding hands stuff like that and even before them, i didnt really like anyone, i felt as if i had to FIT IN, i had to love someone and according to all the people in my life (who r probably homophobic) love is what makes humans..well..HUMAN! and i needed to love a MAN or else i wasnt a human being (i was born female)