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I get so attached to ppl...
by:
xXSlayerXx 
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25.01.2020
14 comments
Leothegod
25.01.2020 00:35
Link:( you okay?
xXSlayerXx[OP]
25.01.2020 00:35
Link... I don't know.
A lot of my flipanim friends are leaving, and I feel like the ones who are still active ignore me..
I feel like I have nobody else left, even though I have a TON of people here for me..
remember that the only person you're responsible for is yourself- take care of yourself FIRST.
don't worry about leaving friends if they make you feel bad, and don't be afraid to say "I'm sorry, I can't help you with your problem right now"
You don't need to take care of anyone except you.
I know... But I'm always too worried about how other people react to what I do. I hate dissappointing people. I hate making people sad..
I put everyone before myself...
well shoot it deleted my Whole Thing
basically, take this from someone who spent their entire life having friends come and go bc they're "annoying" or "immature" or WHATEVER- STOP CARING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE SO MUCH.
It's hard, I know it's hard, but listen- listen. Be yourself, and you'll find people who'll stay friends with you, because they like you for YOU, and not for someone you've made up. As dr suess says- be the you that makes you happy, and the people who mind don't matter, and the people who matter don't mind.
And as someone who spent 3 years with a friend (2 years with her as my girlfriend) who made me SO TERRIBLY UNHAPPY but I was scared to break up with because I didn't want to upset her- STOP WORRYING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELINGS. YOUR FEELINGS COME FIRST, NO MATTER WHAT. unless you have a kid, i guess, but. YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS *ALWAYS* MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU. PLEASE stop being with friends who make you upset. Put yourself first. I spent SEVENTEEN YEARS with the same mindset as you. trust me.
