CHOOOOOOOOOOOOIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLD!!!!!!!

oh no my bb *hugs* why are you sad?

Do you maybe have an idea why theyre ignoring you? Maybe theyre dealing with stuff or avoiding you cuz theyre not sure what to say? Im sorry that theyre ignoring you though that sucks especially if they dont give you a reason and youre supposed to at least be friends they should be trying to work things out with you since you honestly still care about them

And youve already asked them whats wrong and they arent answering you so the best i can say is try not to worry over them so much i mean its definitely not fair to you when your trying to continue the friendship and theyre just blocking you out Its their loss especially since they cant even tell you upfront either what the problem is or that they may not want to be friends any longer I know itll be hard, losing friends you care about so much always is but if this person is hurting you this much then they dont care as much as you do so maybe try talking to friends who love talking to you who actually care and tell you whats up instead of treating you so badly and maybe theyll realize what theyre doing and talk to you again or maybe theylll continue and if thats the case dont give them your everything in a friendship they wont help keep up

I know my cubbie but its okay to feel hurt, i dont think anyone feels good when friends/crushes ignore them, and you were obvioulsy good friends otherwise it wouldnt hurt that much but you do hurt because you care about her a whole lot and thats a big deal, your feelings matter. Maybe try writing down everything you feel, anything that comes to your mind like when you were happy you were friends and how youre confused about her behavior, sad, mad, anything cuz if you think through your feelings and why youre feeling them instead of bottling it up and or ignoring them you can try to understand them so that itll help you think of what you might wanna do differently next time and understand its not your fault she wont talk things out with you, you just keep being you and take care of yourself sweetheart. Whatever her reasons are you may not know, but dont put yourself down okay cuz you arent being a terrible person and theres nothing wrong with you, she just couldnt handle something and decided what was best -

for her and the best thing for you i think is to focus on that youre a wonderful person (and my lovely cub) no matter what and itll be hard but try to focus on new or fun things you likeand focus on people who wanna stay with you not someone who decided to leave