Things about manipulators
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Irelandie[OP]
07.11.2019 18:18
LinkAt least ones I’ve noticed online
Irelandie[OP]
07.11.2019 18:26
LinkI know I somewhat promised not to talk about personal matters. However, I do want to put a bit of info here. Even though most of it is rather useless and common sense.
1. They have a puppet:
What I mean by this is they have one person who ,no matter what, will ALWAYS agree with them. No matter what. It doesn’t matter how hypocritical or in the wrong they are, this person will support them. Sometimes, it even seems to be in a way that this other person doesn’t even seem real. They come out of absolutely nowhere and begins to fight you. Were they just hiding in the shadows? What were you even doing before this started? Why do you vanish once it ends?
2. They are terribly hypocritical
I am using the definition of hypocrisy when one person says something is wrong, but they do the exact same thing. They tell you to stop, but would go ahead and use the same thing to take you down instead. They use this as they see fit.
3. Guilt tripping
Once they start “losing” a battle, they proceed to tell you
Irelandie[OP]
07.11.2019 18:28
LinkHow you are bullying them or spiking up a mental illness they have. Or at the end, they go and tell you how their going to do something terrible BECAUSE of you. But at any other point in time, their illness vanishes. I’m begging you, no one wants to be guilt tripped.
Irelandie[OP]
07.11.2019 18:32
LinkAnd here are my suggestions to at least make things calm. Or not to make things worse
1. Don’t show anger in your words
Don’t use insults in an argument. I truly feel that makes it worse. Especially when the other person WANTS to see you mad.
2. If you say you’re going to leave, LEAVE
once you say you’re done, don’t keep going. Stay to your words, because you shouldn’t have to be forced into a bad situation.
Okay, bye bye