well i guess im never getting a present then :P

my ship will sail, just wait and see

why do u oppose the ship so much anyway? u flirt with like every guy u meet bc u want "options",, im showing u one of ur options and saying hes the best out of all the others. Its just my opinion, too. I could go off about this ship for hours but whatevs

ur gonna have to choose someone eventually. most boys in our school are assholes. u refuse to even give him a chance, u have a bias and are blocking it out of ur mind bc you refuse to believe ur capable of having feelings towards him.. u have to open ur mind and not block out the possibility that u can have a crush on someone

ive made the same mistake too many times :/

if u dont take my advice its fine,, but its only hurting u by keeping the walls and restrictions up

it takes time,, just try to keep the walls down for a while and just have an open mind

and if u never feel anything towards anyone, or youre aromantic or ace i wont judge, just dont force yourself to not like someone

i tried to make myself not like someone and kept up walls but putting them down was the smartest thing i ever did and i learned so much about myself

do u see yourself with anyone, or do you see yourself with a perfect boy who has little to no flaws and is everything you like all mixed in to one person? Cuz that’s called high expectations my friend and high expectations can only hurt people

And don’t get too in love with the fake person who ur high expectations made up in your head because you’re never ever going to meet that person and you’re hurting yourself. Drop fake feelings and welcome in the real ones

I’m sorry if this is rude or mean or anything but I’m trying to help u so u don’t get hurt like I did

I see extremely big potential with u and Luca. I know I can’t force u to like him,, and I can’t make u have feelings that aren’t real,, but honest to god he’s perfect for u. I don’t mean to hurt u ,, I’m sorry if it hurts now but lowering expectations and letting down walls literally changed my life for the better so much and it’s so worth it even if it hurts at first. I can’t force you to have feelings for Luca but I can try to make u understand he’s good for u and probably the best person for u in the whole school. And he really, really likes u Kate. I’ve never seen someone fall so deep as he did for u. Try not to hurt him

And ur saying u don’t like him because he doesn’t have abs ? He picked up so many hobbies to impress u, to get ur attention. I promise he would be SOO supportive. And he likes art, he would do so much art for u if he knew that’s what u wanted. I know exactly how he feels Kate I’ve been there before for a girl too,, I know exactly how he feels

I’m sorry if this hurts u but it’ll hurt more if u don’t listen. He wants u so so bad Kate. u have to lower your expectations or both of u will get really hurt. this is gonna hurt to hear but the perfect guy in ur head isn’t real and he’s never going to be there. but Luca is so good for u and don’t keep the walls up. Walls only get bigger and more layers pile on top if you don’t knock them down

I don’t want either of u to end up like me. I became so depressed and I wanted to die for so long but I refused to knock down the high ass walls of expectations for myself and other people and it only made my sadness worse