I relate to this on a personal level. I know he's talking to his ex and he cheated on her, but to me it means something else. I've seen so many friends leave me. So many. I always try and be so nice and help other's with their problems but no one ever asked about mine. Not one of those friends that left ever asked me, they only tried to get my guard down. It won't work. I've had thus guard my whole life, the only way you will get me to open up is have me write or draw or ask me. Simply ask me. Don't get hurt when I don't open up to you but instead have you open up to me. I'm not being selfish. I'm keeping you from hurting more. If you really want to help me, stop asking my problems. Let me help yours and I'm honestly sorry if you feel unwanted because that was never how I wanted you to feel I swear it. You never asked how I felt, so you won't know. I never ask about you, yet I know all of your struggles. It's not fair but I'm fine with it. This hurts my heart but only because I relate so much.