Detached Their philosophy in life is to live and let live, and they will not let anyone get close to their hearts beyond a point. They are scared of losing their freedom. You can also try our fully personalised Birth Chart based report Compatibility Assessment Reading to know how well you will get along with your partner. Stubborn Although they are good listeners, it is very difficult to make the Aquarius-born change their pattern of thinking. Aloof These people tend to cut themselves off from others whenever they wish, and become distant. Thus, they can miss out on some good opportunities. Extremist There seems to be no middle path for the Aquarius-born people. It is always all or nothing for them. This is the reason why people in their circle think of them as extremists.