I need some advice
by:
Cottoncandykitty 
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1343
21.01.2019
26 comments
Cottoncandykitty[OP]
21.01.2019 17:29
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So I go out of my way to fix an issue with someone, talk it out, provide support, and promise i won't do (what was presumed to be my fault but now i don't really think it is) again.
So I now realize the problem wasn't with me, given the other person is still treating me the same way they confronted me about treating them
That is very angering, and I'm trying to keep my cool, given I've been having relatively good days latley, and i don't wanna just blow up and ruin everything
But everyone has a limit, ya know?
Hhh sorry I just needed to vent some anger, but if anyone can help me out and give me some honest advise on what to do it would be very appreciated
Just stay calm, talk to them, and if that doesn’t work you confront them and bring it to an end, it may hurt, but we’ll be here to support you
That's very smart, thank you so much dark, it means a lot
(I almost said your real name but idk if you wanted people to see so i didn't lmao
Lol
I hope this situation goes by fats, you shouldn’t be treated badly
Yea I agree, I mean I can only take so much for so long you know
Honestly I would just ignore them until they got there sht tighter because if you were not involved or had nothing to do with it then they shouldn’t be treating you in a sht way
Actually, that sounds pretty smart
Just sit back and let them get their shit together, instead of me trying to help them but I still feel like trash
Yo man, thank you a lot
Np honestly I get into a lot of fights for stupid reasons with my friends I’ve learned that it is ant always your fault
I think it’s good for u to be keeping ur cool so far, that’s v respectable and I’m glad to hear that-
I guess the best way is to let them know that this upsets you but to approach it in a non accusing way? The other person shouldn’t feel blamed but like should know that u still appreciate them but rly wanna work things out so both can be happier together??
Yeah I can see that, like try to approach the issue in a gentle, let's fix this way
Walk away,listen to some lofi hip hop, do something that cools you down
Try to avoid people like that but don’t go out on her, Tell her you don’t have time for her
