as a trans man, i would like to let all of you know... that being transgender is not a choice. if it was, i would have been cis. please stop acting like it is a choice, because it's not. dysphoria makes the decision for you, and it's hell. if you do think it's a choice, please stop being insensitive around our issues. ALSO, no, you can't ****ing talk for the transgender community if YOU ARE NOT TRANSGENDER. also, don't act like we can't defend ourselves or think for ourselves and that we need an army of cisgendered people to white knight us because we are defenseless. shut up. we can defend ourselves and think for ourselves.