no debate ur wrong. shut up. if their gender doesnt fit your idea of what gender should be? great! not your problem, if gender is so important 2 u just reflect it,, with your own identity. your idea of gender isnt a cult people need to join its just ur opinion and you cant put people down for your own opinion which, most of the time unfortunately, people will pass off as fact

anyways do whatever u want with ur ****in gender. if it makes you happy do it!! there's enough joyless things in the world and if you are able to make yourself happy by going by a different pronoun or label do it!! dont let people dictate over you so you can be """ACTUALLY valid"""

sometimes though certain identities do need to have like an actual. requirement (some xenogenders only allow neurodivergent people to use them for example) and thats kind of where i draw the line but otherwise do whatever. who cares a ****

and if you actually do care a **** about how people portray themselves and what labels they might use. grow up