Guys i need some advice
by:
MaxiTheNerd 
877
877
20.01.2026
15 comments
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
20.01.2026 03:13
LinkEverytime i play adopt me one of my friends joins and we talk and sometimes i dont mind but a lot of the time i just want to be by myself so i can stop thinking about life for a while and he joins when im in the middle of being on alone and he JUST joined me and i immediately left and i feel really horrible but i just cant handle a whole convo right now where i have to reply immediately. We already takked today and yesterday too and he is a great guy and when i left he started messaging me and asking where i wrnt and i feel terrible but idk how to tell him that im not a super social person without sounds mean
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
20.01.2026 03:15
LinkDjjsiwiwbw he is messaging me still and he says he has something for me im just pretending to be offline because im a bit drained i dont know how to tell him i dont really like directly talking to people a lot even my closest friends i just don't like it a lot and ive been trying a bit harder so i can connect with my friends and have a meaningful relationship with them but it gets really tiring and i feel horrible for thinking that but idk how to change
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
20.01.2026 03:19
LinkAlso i just realized at my unc age of 17 thay when people vent to me they sometimes just want someone to listen ive been tryong to fix their problems this whole time and i feel really bad about this 💔💔 i think i will ask before hand if someone wants help or just wants me to listen
There's a setting you can turn off that doesn't show your connections when you're online or what game your playing
I know you said you don’t like directly talking to your friends a lot but you really should tell him that you’re not in the mood to really talk
I dont know how to say it without sounding like i hate him because i dont hate him 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
