the fact I have to call myself
12.03.2021
11 comments
BigBoozleJuiceReal[OP]
12.03.2021 03:03
Linkgreysexual pisses me off
BigBoozleJuiceReal[OP]
12.03.2021 03:03
Linksex positive asexuals are differnt but all of a sudden I have to say im sexual-ish
***** THE **** I AM NOT
it's weird if I explain it as
Im asexual but we can't **** out of love
greysexual means people with rare sexual attraction
asexual means no sexual attraction but some sex positive asexuals are having to call them selves greysexual because people are like "Eww YOU CAN'T HAVE S3X IF YOUR ACE EVEN IF THERE IS NO SEXUAL FEELLINGS"
well i think there's definitely a discussion to be had about the way the other partner may feel if someone has sex with them but genuinely has no feelings for them. I know that if I had sex with someone and they said to me afterwards that they had no sexual feelings toward me but sex made them feel good so they had sex with me, I would feel very offended because it feels, to me, like they're using my body for sex without caring about me at all.
Also, I think that asexuality is less common than the internet would have one believe, and that decreased libido can be a very important indicator of some health issues (did you know there's a female equivalent to erectile dysfunction and that lack of libido can be a huge symptom in diagnosis?)
yeah I understand that, but sex positive asexuality is different I it's hard to explain urgirhguieh I have feelings for my partner, and if it ever came to that step, then sure for them, but it's more of a like I'll mess around with you because I love you thing like I do not feel sexual attraction whatsoever but I have had my fair share of people who I love wanting that type of stuff and me just going along with it to make them happy
