Love is like a warm embrace, a happy feeling in your body, sometimes someone can take it to far and obsess over them. You should feel warm and if it’s a cold feeling then you know you don’t love them, and you could feel it and understand it too, maybe it’s just a simple “I love you” or it could be comedic “I love you wifeyboobae” or you don’t know how to say it right and insult them. It’s a simple way of knowing what it is to feel loved, and from my experience I take it to far..

You should be able to know when you love them, you should be able to talk to them freely and not restrain yourself. You should be selfish. It’s not just “oh he’s busy with games” it’s “either I join him” or feel sad he’s chosen something else over your time and love, you shouldn’t be abusive about it, don’t just thing that it’s a simple game, it’s supposed to be an effort that you both put in, and if you feel insecure about it, confront them.

If you know that they need medical attention then loosen up, you know it’s not their fault they can’t respond!