argh
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pablofawkes[OP]
16.03.2018 19:10
LinkPeople seem really eager to get into relationships.
I get it, I was there, I wanted a big tiddy goth gf as much as the next slimy neckbeard redditor.
But to be in a healthy relationship, you first have to be able to stand alone and a single.
You must shed your fedoira, throw out your katana, and become >le based channer
(AKA the chad of the internet forums)
But seriously, being in a relationship is dope, not gonna lie.l it's fucvking cool, but there are downsides to it, and also it won't solvbe all of your problems.
If you're miserable, being in a relationship makes you less miserable... when you're together.
When you're apart you don't just get to be happy, you think of them and want to be with them. and if you can't, that makes you a little sad. Put that on top of regular stuff youy already have, you can get some real shit.
ALSO, don't ever, never ever never, rush into a relationship.
You When you look in their eyes, you realize how worthless diamonds are. You touch their face and silk becomes sandpaper to you. They talk and you can never appreciate music the same way. All the public speakers in the world could not enthrall you as much as them talking about their day.
(I'm a bit of a romantic, by the way)
But that doesn't just happen. you need to know each other first, converse and become friends.
Don't rush into shit if you don't know their favourite band and shit like that.