i have never EVER said that it was okay to make rape jokes if you were autistic. somewhat similar situation was when someone made a bad take about people with or without autism should not say the r slur. I dont ****ing know how you could twist someones words so badly, or if you just want to go after someone. But who ever ****ing said it, i am after you

which yes i agree people who cannot reclaim the word should not say it, that is just obvious. but they were disagreeing with people who said those who can could sa it if they were comfortable to--

i said word ?? i dont remember much because things are easily forgotten