ok,lmt,this is important
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EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:31
LinkAlrighty,time for me to tell yall something important(influenced by something i just remembered that happened a bit ago)
Ok so,if someone hides there depression(AS MOST DO-),its not because they want to have a secret(belive me,having secrets is way too much work),or because they want extra ''attention''. Its because there either embarrassed,scared,nervous,OR ALL OF THEM. If you tell someone your depressed,you suddenly end up with attention that you dont want,or sometimes people dont even believe you because they think you WANT the attention. Now,I can say that some people have faked depprssion,its a real issue,BUT its more likely real,and its wrong to just act like they want something out of it,or have bad motives.
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:31
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EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:35
LinkDo not automatically believe someone if they say there fine,half the time its a whole LIE. I mean,i say im fine even if ppl know im not,but that doesnt really mean anything. And back to the other topic,its true,i am embarrassed and scared to talk about it,but i cant really help it,i have to talk to someone(according to a friend)
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:38
LinkNow,if you assume someones lying and your right,DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! dont let them get worse,dont let them leave you and put up any more walls then they already have,HELP THEM. even if it is just distracting them for a bit,believe me,it helps. even you doing that can make someone feel like at least 1 person cares,if if there are so many more.
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:39
LinkFor example-one of my friends gives REALLY good advice when it comes to my issues,and just so ya know,they are talking from experience. Thats how it works. Theres always at least 1 person who will understand you,thats a promise.
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:43
LinkNext,this kinda goes in with the first thing,a lot of people question who they are,there gender,sexuality,and some other stuff. SO,if someones questioning who they are and dont tell you,dont you dare get mad,if they are QUESTIONING,it means they dont even know,so what would they tell you? They dont have to tell you anything until THEY ARE READY,no whenever you want!
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:51
LinkNow,DO NOT judge someone off who they love or who they are,its not like we have a choice! I would know,im trans but i guess if im being honest i would chose not to be if i had a chance,but at the same time,if i had a choice in who i was born as,i would chose a boy,but instead a have to go through coming out,transitioning(maybe,if my family lets me) and a whole lot of other shit,so if someone messes with me,they better know im not a defensless little girl(not saying girls are weak and boys are strong,just talking about me personally,every gender is amazing :) ),but a damn strong boy who fights for HIS righs,so do not let me find you doing anything against someone whos not ''normal'' in your eyes,because every person in the LGBTQ+ community is AMAZING,and are just being themselves(some of the only ones in fact). Speaking of which,most people only say slurs or offensive shit because they know they arent being there selves,but ya do have a chance to explore,dont take your anger out on others
EREN12[OP]
27.01.2021 03:52
Linkaright,i have much more to say but thats all i will say tonight :)