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Do not automatically believe someone if they say there fine,half the time its a whole LIE. I mean,i say im fine even if ppl know im not,but that doesnt really mean anything. And back to the other topic,its true,i am embarrassed and scared to talk about it,but i cant really help it,i have to talk to someone(according to a friend)

Now,if you assume someones lying and your right,DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! dont let them get worse,dont let them leave you and put up any more walls then they already have,HELP THEM. even if it is just distracting them for a bit,believe me,it helps. even you doing that can make someone feel like at least 1 person cares,if if there are so many more.

For example-one of my friends gives REALLY good advice when it comes to my issues,and just so ya know,they are talking from experience. Thats how it works. Theres always at least 1 person who will understand you,thats a promise.

Next,this kinda goes in with the first thing,a lot of people question who they are,there gender,sexuality,and some other stuff. SO,if someones questioning who they are and dont tell you,dont you dare get mad,if they are QUESTIONING,it means they dont even know,so what would they tell you? They dont have to tell you anything until THEY ARE READY,no whenever you want!

Now,DO NOT judge someone off who they love or who they are,its not like we have a choice! I would know,im trans but i guess if im being honest i would chose not to be if i had a chance,but at the same time,if i had a choice in who i was born as,i would chose a boy,but instead a have to go through coming out,transitioning(maybe,if my family lets me) and a whole lot of other shit,so if someone messes with me,they better know im not a defensless little girl(not saying girls are weak and boys are strong,just talking about me personally,every gender is amazing :) ),but a damn strong boy who fights for HIS righs,so do not let me find you doing anything against someone whos not ''normal'' in your eyes,because every person in the LGBTQ+ community is AMAZING,and are just being themselves(some of the only ones in fact). Speaking of which,most people only say slurs or offensive shit because they know they arent being there selves,but ya do have a chance to explore,dont take your anger out on others

aright,i have much more to say but thats all i will say tonight :)