example of what I mean: just because one asexual person is comfortable with sex jokes doesnt mean another will be. thats ok and you should respect them both

just because one trans girl is okay with being called dude doesnt mean all of them are. just because one trans guy is okay with being called sis doesnt mean they all are. just ebcause on trans guy is ok with being called a teink doesnt mean they all are

ALSO just because a trans guy calls himself a twink or says it to another trans guy doesnt mean hes comfortable with other people saying that about him!!!! just because one trans girl is okay discussing physical sex traits with other trans women doesnt mean she is comfortable discussing it with other people!!!!

different peopel have different experiences with things, if someone says they are uncomfortable wuth anything you should respect that. just because they are okay discussing certain things with fellow people who can relate, doesnt mean they can comfortably discuss it with you

for example. I might nake a joke about not having a dick, or refer to my tits as tits, but if someone else did that I would be uncomfortable. people are allowed to have boundaries about how people talk to them