Someone please help
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Feather-Paws 
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06.06.2018
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ZEOthePsycho16
06.06.2018 00:05
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So, like, I was in a great mood but then I got a text message from my dad. Usually that would be OK but then he started saying he missed me and he didn't want to lose any more time with me and that he only gets 4 days a month with me. He already is trying to get custody of me and my brothers (I'm going to say "no" in court.) but it's making me very uncomfortable.
Does anybody have some advice for me? I have no idea what to do because I don't want to hurt him but I want him to know I need time for myself.
It depends on what your relationship is with him. If he is not a good person, be honest. You don't have to be rude but the time will come one way or another that you will say "no" either in court or not.
He's texting me.
My parents are divorced and my mom has custody of me.
He really wants custody of me but he keeps saying that he wants to spend more time with me and during Christmas he threatened to force me to go to his house for winter break.
Thank you for your help.
I don't talk with him much as we see things very differently and he gets a LOT of sass with me (like a teenager) if I don't agree or don't want to hang out. That and talking to people has always been hard for me. He caused a lot of my problems, too. But I still love him because he changed and he's better now.
But I don't know how to tell him nicely.
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I will pray for you!!!! Good luck and I hope you will find the right words.
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Thank you both. This has been helpful.
I don't feel so bad anymore. Thank you
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