im confused on the word as a whole because I've heard from multiple different people [a lot being transwomen] say they don't like or want the word to be used since it was like a derogatory term and then turned into more of just a fetishizing term used on pornsites and stuff like that. and that people can use roseboy if they wanted to have the term of an effeminate man. but I've also heard people say its fine to use it and that people have reclaimed it and I'm just confused