But- I don't want that for girls! They're beutiful and unique, no matter what, and they never deserve to suffer!

I'm afraid this is true for lots of men. They can be very... controlling? But I believe this is sometimes why people(women) become depressed. They feel like they need to become perfect for men. But the way I see it, you're already beautiful. If men don't like you for who you are and need to change to make them like you, they aren't worth it. Be yourself and be proud of it. If no one likes you, who cares? be yourself and be proud to be yourself Sorry for making this long paragraph 😅