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WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 21:57
Linkok sorry if you hate me but i think proshipping is ok if you do it in private because it begins to harm other people when you make it public
WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 21:59
Linki didnt want to rant abt stuff today but im really Weitded aout bu some posts. nobody should knoe you proship but if you proship to cope and youre doing it privately and it helps you then good do it
WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 22:02
Linkalso who in gods name has ever sat on their ass and done research on proshipping pls stop telling people to do research if you havent either
WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 22:02
LinkIm not a proshipper byw
WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 22:03
Linkif people know you proship then theres a problem bc that should be private since it can harm other people with very few exceptions to that
WiperDoo[OP]
02.04.2025 22:37
Linka lot of people who are arguing that proshippers are all disgusting and gross suddenly go silent whenever a victim comes out about their experience and i thought that was kind of Ironic
I don’t know because I think doing it in private can also normalise really gross things for yourself and I don’t understand how indulging in ships relating to abuse, incest, pedophilia .etc. could ever do more good than harm to a person 🥲
Yeah I get supporting the person, but I don’t really agree with encouraging that behaviour even in private. It’s like saying self harm is okay as long as you do it in private. I respect everyone as a person, but I would in no way respect or support a proshipper’s actions, because no matter why you do it it’s still a really distasteful thing to do, as with any other bad coping mechanism. I’d want that person to find a better way to cope so I would never say proshipping is okay even if done in private
i meant like. if it keeps them from doing something more severe then its okay, same with self harm. i would encourage coping in different ways but at the end of the day its their trauma not mine so I cant really say how they should cope and neither can you. also usually those tropes are already normalized and thats literally the reason they proship ? self harm is physically harming yourself and proshipping can be harmful to yourself but it isnt always harmful
self harm = always harmful
proshipping = can be harmful but not always
ive talked to proshippers before and theyve told me they do it for reasons like helping themself process what happened to them and not to normalize it or to like project it onto a character they already relate to, like when people headcanon a character has a certain insecurity they have it makes them feel less alone with their trauma
I don’t know, maybe it’s just a narrow minded view, but I can’t see why proshipping could result in something not harmful. I know people use it for coping, but the majority of proshippers I see online seem to be romanticising the things they are projecting onto characters, which just feels wrong and counterproductive. Still, I would never support a proshipper’s actions and I do believe there are definitely hundreds of better coping mechanisms people can and deserve to use instead. But this is just how I feel as an outsider’s perspective, I don’t really try to talk to people in communities like this because they make me very uncomfortable so maybe I will just never understand it correctly.
yk that people can try those coping mechanisms and not ike them becaus ethey dont like them yes proshipping isnt the best but there are more coping mechanisms worst than proshipping, like if they arent being oroblematic with it then ok u go then but most proshippers do it for a coping mechanism and its one of the only ones they can use because its so engraved in there brain
Just because there are worse coping mechanisms doesn’t mean it’s not bad. I also think the point about it being engraved in your brain is applicable to any addiction/ bad coping mechanism too, which many people have proven that there are ways out of unhealthy coping mechanisms. I don’t think these are valid reasons to support the action of proshipping or encourage it. So again I don’t believe proshipping should be supported even if done in private. (Sorry I really feel like my English messed up here but yeah hopefully you can still understand my point 🥲)
I don't think they're saying it isn't bad. even if it is a bad coping mech, some people cannot control it. trauma is a serious topic and lots of people go through different things, it changes the way you think and feel, and they know it isn't healthy but telling people that they aren't okay or constantly berating them isn't going to help.
I’m not trying to berate them, my only point is that I disagree with this post as even doing proshipping in private can be harmful to themselves and I don’t think that’s okay
Yes it could be harmful, but saying you disagree with this post was not needed, it just brings negativity to people, making them feel bad about what their doing is not right either. unless you have an actually have a reason other than disagreeing you can go ahead and voice your concerns, but honestly not trying to be mean opinions here could be considered berating
I guess, sorry. I guess I just feel very strongly against it so I wanted to debate against it but I didn’t want to be rude 🏃♀️
This person I was disagreeing to isn’t a proshipper though so I don’t understand why they’d be upset? Also, I wasn’t using and degrading language towards proshippers. I just think their actions are wrong and they need better help to be better people. I have nothing against them as human beings and believe they deserve respect, but their actions do not if that makes sense. I think it’s okay for me to share my opinion, right?
But yeah, sorry if it seemed mean. I wish you the best in finding a healthy coping mechanism, but ima leave this alone now 🏃♀️