ok first of all you can be non binary basically not have a gender it is ok people sometimes feel like both genders or no genders,second you can call yourself gay and never have dated a person of the same gender and only have had a crush on someone the same gender,third there is a thing called intersex where a persons privates are not considered specifically boy or girl, fifth if you believe that there is only one gender and that girls are objects well then screw you that is a horrible thing to believe and please change your mindset. if you believe otherwise on any of these things then please tell me.