My favorite woman
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CoolCatCamren 
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19.04.2024
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CoolCatCamren[OP]
19.04.2024 13:27
LinkCoolCatCamren[OP]
19.04.2024 13:28
LinkWhen I learned this information I literally lost my mind
CoolCatCamren[OP]
19.04.2024 13:30
LinkUnfortunately a lot of ppl don’t understand others just
Don’t want a relationship
CoolCatCamren[OP]
19.04.2024 13:37
LinkAromantism is on a spectrum there are ppl who do get into romantic relationships
But I’m like many others just don’t like the idea at all
Which is kind of hard with like the world today and how all guys are fixating on finding a woman, how to get women and women are pressured to settle down with a dude
There’s probably guys who are aromantic and get told they just can’t pull or like there weird for not wanting a relationship
Making Tula as a persona for aromantism made it fun to portray what the identity let’s you realize and frees your mind in a way
I only really made her along with intersex as pride representatives which is basically just humanizing LGTBQ identities
CoolCatCamren[OP]
19.04.2024 13:45
LinkYk pride identities aren’t concrete it could be possible someone is aro for awhile then changes, because ppl as humans change along with there brains horomones and situations
But it’s been a long time since I dated anyone and I appreciate the freedom a lot
I think i’d rather have a life long bestfriend then a romantic relationship-
CoolCatCamren[OP]
20.04.2024 04:14
LinkThis was so ground breaking
I designed her awhile ago on a roblox drawing game she kind of reminds me of a four leaf clover
ouhh is it bc the four little antenna thingy's? ALSO I LOVE ROBLOC DRAWING GAMES i prob have way more hours on freedraw then id like to admit
It was a weird design choice I randomly made freedraw was so addictive but my iPad would keep clocking out of it after awhile idk just the brush and the community aspect was so fun
I found like an aggie pen on ibis paint and it reminds me of the freedraw one so i like started abusing the shit out of this brush. like 27 full art peices ONLY using this brush
CAN LIKE you guys make custom brushes too?i can try n find an aggie pen for procreat
Yes but ibis users are more generous procreate brush ppl make everyone pay for stuff I can rarely find free pens that are unique like ibis ones
THANKS I drew something yesterday but didn’t like it but I really wanted to try drawing today
I don’t really love this drawing either but the topic kept me going
I probably make flop drawings a lot without realizing yk when something you make isn’t like good or makes you as happy as art usually does
I know what you mean. At least you made something, it doesn't have yo be mindblowing or revolutionary! I think it's cool
IKR people probably won’t like this as much but I thought some of you guys would like to see Tula
Aromanticism isn’t really discussed on here
Didn’t you talk about yesterday your parents were gonna find your chrome book and you might leave for awhile? Did something change
AND TY but I’m interested
Oh god I remember how one of my friends straight guy i was explaining him about aroace ppl and how we feel and think and he kept going like "you cant be both??? You must be one not both aroace and aromantic" HE ALSO SAID TO ME, AN AROACE, THAT "everyone can feel love you're just mentally ill" LIKE HELLO.
It’s not even like a preference where you want to date ppl but don’t because you don’t want to deal with the consequences or draw backs IT LITERALLY MEANS you feel little to no romantic attraction you can’t just gauge that or change it
DUDE FR LIKE 😭😭 HOW IS ME NOT BEING INTERESTED IN ROMANTIC AND SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS MAKE ME MENTALLY ILL
Is being bestfriends with ppl not enough, would you rather me be in a loveless relationship because I find that more concerning then some ppl who can’t feel romantic attraction
And the thing is he kept saying that I'm just too inexperienced and still in puberty when not once in my life I felt any romantic and sexual attraction to anybody irl 💀
I don't understand why he's acting like it's a sin when you can't just???? Force people to be in relationships just because you say so
UNFORTUNATELY it's really normalized here that the boys at my school literally force the girls to be in a relationship with them whether they want it or not it's really that bad
I also noticed how people who are also queer treat aroace people like shit too [irl at least]
I remember how the queer kids kept looking at me with a weirded out stare just because I'm aroace and kept saying the same thing too
THATS SO WEIRD TO TELL SOMEONE THERE TOO INEXPEREINCED OR STILL IN PUBERTY? do they think of you as a child why even say something like that
TRUE 💀 I'M LITERALLY MONTHS OLDER THAN HIM HE BETTER SHUT THE **** UP
Being Aroace is a isolating experience I heard a lot of ppl say it shouldn’t be a pride identity but Jesus Christ the amount of harassment those ppl get more the qualifies as obviously not fitting into the sterotypical binary of sexualities or identities
I really really really really hope some guy doesn’t hear me say I just don’t like dating ppl and gets pissed at me for it or tries to convince me I haven’t met the right person
Yeah ☹️ I would get people constantly invalidating me irl just because I simply just don't feel any attraction romantic or sexual to anyone it's really sad how they misstreat us simply because we just, don't want to be in a relationship????
Like how is not wanting to be in any relationship bad the **** is wrong with people
I feel like I’m gonna have to use the “I’m already dating someone” excuse lowk just so I don’t get bothered but I don’t like lying to ppl and what if the dudes say something like I’m better then them or ask for proof I can never win
I’ll just have to say I like girls
But then what if there like I can fix you OMGG I CAN’T WIN
